Famous quotes of Martin du Gard

1

That day, I went to the elementary school to pick up the children from school.

A middle-aged woman, fat, holding a little one, was also waiting in line.

Finally it was her turn. She just stretched out her hand to hold her son in preschool, but the teacher grabbed the child, pushed it to the wall, and said angrily: "Your child is so naughty!Fighting with others all day long!”

The fat mother was stunned for a moment, the outstretched hand stopped in the air, her face instantly turned red!

The son was also frightened, standing stiffly against the wall, his innocent eyes turned around, and he looked dazed and scared.

The little one in the arms of the fat mother seemed to feel that the “situation” was wrong and started crying.The fat mother helped the little one with her hand, ruthlessly, and left.

The teacher was a little surprised, but he was calm and continued to send the children out of school busily.

Seeing this scene, I was very angry.

First, this child is only a child in preschool, only six or seven years old.It is common for six or seven-year-old boys to be lively and active. They don't listen to people's advice and fight and pour.

Second, for this child, the teacher must worry a lot, be angry a lot, and have a lot of anger in his heart.It is appropriate and necessary for you to criticize and educate him.But how can you sprinkle personal anger on him?Although he is a child, he is also an independent person, and he should also be respected.

Third, if the child has a problem, he can communicate with his parents.But communication is not to criticize parents and embarrass parents.What's more, it was a parent holding a child.How difficult is it to take care of two children by one person?

Fourth, children make mistakes and parents are criticized. What is the truth?Even if you have great reason, you can't embarrass people in public!

The fat mother chose to leave in embarrassment, and her son stood pitifully by the wall alone. The teacher had to take care of the safety of the child who was not picked up, and he couldn't go home smoothly after get off work.

Except for the teacher who vented his bad emotions, no one benefited from this incident. This was a “three-lose” ending.

If this teacher can understand the word "respect”, respect himself, respect parents, respect children, start from sincerity, start from truth, be more patient and understanding, and be less critical and accusing, there will definitely be a “win-win” situation.

2

One day, my colleague went to Teacher Zhen, who was in charge of books, to ask for a book because the children in the class were missing a book.

I have occasionally met Teacher Zhen in school. He is about fifty years old and no longer teaches any classes. He only does some chores in school.

For example, divide the books for the class, put a cover on the air conditioner of each class, etc.

My colleague is a young man who only came to this school last year.When I asked Teacher Zhen for a book, he was extremely respectful.With a humble smile on her face, she spoke softly about the reason for the lack of books for the children in the class.

Teacher Zhen returned coldly: “I looked at the books one by one!”

The implication is that it is your own business to have fewer books in your class. I will give you one less. Don't come to me for it.

My colleague was speechless and hurt. He didn't understand what he had done wrong. Was he so viciously reprimanded?

In fact, she did nothing wrong, but people said lightly, and others didn't take her seriously.

I persuaded her a few words, but she was still a little depressed.

There is an old saying, “When you are above people, you must treat others as people; when you are below people, you must treat yourself as people."”

But some people, who are a little higher than others and have older qualifications, don't treat others as human beings.People who don't treat others as human beings often don't treat themselves as human beings. When they see someone who is a little bit powerful, they rush up with a salivating face.

Chernivsky said, “Being rude means forgetting one's dignity.”

I still can't think of what Teacher Zhen got from his rudeness to his colleagues.Probably get some little pleasure from not treating others as human beings!

3

Martin.Du.Gal said, “Where there is reason and wisdom, there is dignity.”

Most of the teachers in my school have a bachelor's degree or above, but it is not a place with “rationality and wisdom”.

For example, I basically don't print things at school now.

There are more than 3,000 people in the school, and there are only a few printers.They are all at the hands of the little leader.

Every time you go to print, if the leader is not busy, you can say “thank you” and print a few carefully.

The leader was busy and said, You can print it elsewhere.

Then you have to run around and find a leader who is not busy.

The printed things are all work-related things, not your own things.

Sometimes I run around and can't print it.

Print a piece of paper and run errands for half an hour.In addition to mental internal consumption, it is also a waste of time.

But who would be considerate of a young teacher who has to look at people's faces carefully just to print a few work materials?

I remembered a sentence, “I thought others respected me because I was very good, but then I slowly understood that others respected me because others were very good.Good people know how to respect others better.To be respectful to others is actually to respect yourself.”

School teachers teach and educate people, but from this point of view, there are not many truly outstanding people.

4

The above statements are trivial matters, and they don't seem to be worth mentioning.

But you can see the whole leopard with a glimpse, you can see the sea in a drop of water, and the world in a grain of sand.

To be born as a human being, you must first learn to respect others.

It has nothing to do with power, status, wealth, position, age, and all are treated equally.Let respect become a natural expression from the heart.

It seems easy to respect those who are higher than yourself, but be careful not to fall into looking up and flattering.

Respecting those who are lower than yourself, weak, small, humble, and slight is not an easy task. You need to manage bad emotions and restrain bad desires.

Kant said: "If we, like animals, obey desire and escape pain, we are not choosing, but obeying.”

Therefore, don't bow down to the weaknesses of human nature.

Secondly, you must know how to respect yourself.

Respect yourself, I just want to say one thing, that is, when your rights are violated and your dignity is offended, you have to know, you have to understand.

Even if you can't make any confrontational moves, you can't comfort yourself and deceive yourself in a daze.

A Q's spiritual victory method will bring a temporary psychological balance, but it will make us lose something deeper.

I would rather be painful than numb.

Only when there is pain will there be thinking, discerning right and wrong, truth and falsehood.

Only then will there be changes.Even if you are in the silt, you will stay clean and not become the appearance you once hated.

Above, encourage each other.

Can survive the lonely time that no one cares about，

It is worthy of poetry and distance.

Hello, this is Qingxin~

Studying and growing up is a lifelong career.

Looking forward to your attention!